Showing posts with label relation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relation. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Different people different persona!!

In our life we meet lot of people either from our personal relations or through work culture and others as the case may be.People behave differently with respect to their personal emotions at that time.Their real character which one keeps in mind of that person changes completely and lost forever as unable to understand the reason of the human behaviour with respect to time and circumstances.
Its one of the old incident of school friend who once was my very best friend till standard eighth .The time when i newly joined college of fashion designing and in the very morning at 8am i was standing in the bust stop waiting for my bus and i saw her coming towards me but simply ignoring me as if she has never known me for ages .This made me realise the false relations which i had made all these years unknowingly believing all to be the best which i was mistaken and made me understood the real meaning of friendship which was next impt. relation of my life.
Her behaviour at that time is till date a big question mark?How she can behave like this as once we used to share the same bench in the class and enjoyed our friendship but after 10Th our friendly relations took a new shape with new batch of class mates and new friends.I believe its natural that its easy to forget the past and live to the present and old relations rarely hold any importance in ones life ,they move ahead with new phase of life with newer people they come across.We change as we learn to adapt ourselves to the circumstances & we are forced in to live that way to the newer persona each time .Can we able to judge our own self as whats our real character or nature is ?Its very difficult though we are aware but is an impossible to answer or get an answer on the same.

Monday, February 9, 2009

Journey of life

When a child comes to this world he or she crys and same when they leave this earth rest of the poeple related to them cry to loose them.Life a chain frm birth to death all with different phases of life like we feel happy when things around or create an environment of happiness ,we feel sad and worried when things around and people related to us make us feel sad with their sorrow ,we adjust with the circumstances when they demand and finally realise how difficult to live where all phases of life relates with others and not with oneself and mostly adjusting to live for others .
Sometimes surprised as life goes like a ruderless boat all by itself ,moving with wind and waves as they move of their own .We experience all the feelings first the love which our mother showers on us ,second the scold which we get frm our parents for disobeying them .next the fear of going out to school,nxt long time awaited dream of jolly to join the college .next to feel the love of the girfriend or boyfriend and then ultimate relation when we tie a knot with out life partner.
The real truth of life is our next life starts frm the marrige and thats the world which is created by the bond of two people and how they make up to settle to lead a life of thier own with all ups and down which normally everbody of us face .Its a realtion which lives with us till our last breath and rest of the relations lost their importance .But its also true that marriges are made in heaven and if one is blessed with good wife or husband rest of the life could be lead happily and its out fate and luck which decides above all gods blessing.
I feel besides gods blessing ,its in our hands how we mould our life and live and let others around us to lead a wonderful life .A positive attitude to everthing wl always assures you of bright future and well living too.The next most important thing is the faith and belief on the realtions you made and dont worry about the world on what they comment and say ,because its yr life and you are the boss and so must enjoy the life with full spirits.