An Ideal Mate

At the time when we think its time to get married ,we come across lots of things running in our mind with ref to our would be .We start looking , comparing and mix n matching our would be as our next image of our own self. All that we wish to be the best and best partner for life .

what we normally desire is not we get usually but whoever is your blessed partner should be considered a perfect match as marriages are made in heaven, a true saying which happens. Though may be at the start of a married life we don't realise but at the latter part of the life -

we definitely realise the real fact of marriages . A best relation which has been made in this earth and if we handle it properly we are above the world and viceversa .A proper understanding and perfect balancing or acceptance on each views and taking care as if a single soul with two bodies . Though its not possible but it is , it happens and we have to believe it .

If we don't match our views or not in position to adjust or accept him/or may for some personal reason then there is no hope for that relation to exist any further .A relation which can be made easily but very difficult to keep it going smoothly as its not for a time being but for your whole life . I feel we undergo lots of pain in understanding and building this relation strong and during this we may have to sacrifice our own ideals and have to get adjusted or adapted to new ideals and thoughts just for the sake of that life partner..

Different people different persona!!

In our life we meet lot of people either from our personal relations or through work culture and others as the case may be.People behave differently with respect to their personal emotions at that time.Their real character which one keeps in mind of that person changes completely and lost forever as unable to understand the reason of the human behaviour with respect to time and circumstances.

Its one of the old incident of school friend who once was my very best friend till standard eighth .The time when i newly joined college of fashion designing and in the very morning at 8am i was standing in the bust stop waiting for my bus and i saw her coming towards me but simply ignoring me as if she has never known me for ages .This made me realise the false relations which i had made all these years unknowingly believing all to be the best which i was mistaken and made me understood the real meaning of friendship which was next impt. relation of my life.

Her behaviour at that time is till date a big question mark?How she can behave like this as once we used to share the same bench in the class and enjoyed our friendship but after 10Th our friendly relations took a new shape with new batch of class mates and new friends.I believe its natural that its easy to forget the past and live to the present and old relations rarely hold any importance in ones life ,they move ahead with new phase of life with newer people they come across.We change as we learn to adapt ourselves to the circumstances & we are forced in to live that way to the newer persona each time .Can we able to judge our own self as whats our real character or nature is ?Its very difficult though we are aware but is an impossible to answer or get an answer on the same.

The Real Story

One day she was all alone at home as every body has gone out to attend some function .Even her younger sister too went out and she was left to household chores but the moment she was free and set her herself relax in front of television ,nothing interested her .She went straight to her room and opened old albums where she could see her mother looking like an angel from paradise .Her mother a very beautiful lady with face as peaceful as goddess mother Mary ,she burst into tears seeing her photo without reason as if filled with intense sorrow from inside .Lots of thoughts came into her mind reminding her loss and expectation to again experience the same warmth of mothers love which she used to get when her mother was alive.She felt that had she not lossed her mother she would still have the better life and all these current problems could not have uprooted .She knewed and heared from others saying that her mother had a lovable gesture thus the reason to be every ones favourite and being well educated she could withstand any problem and can find solution.

But gods decision which he makes for every ones fate can not be changed or desired .It has to happen as per his will and we have to undergo that .Mothers relation is something above the world and the person who have lost it can better understand what it means to him/her.I pity those newly born babies whose mother dies after their birth and they are taken care by some nurse or their near and dears .But whatever they do their best to care for that child,they cant fill the space of the real mother ...I really pray God to please don't let any child to experience this loss ..please !!

The Real Story

When she was in college doing some diploma in textiles ,she was an very simple girl with no flight of any charms as college girls used to have at her age. She would dress up simple and simply to her personality of her own and rarely mingled with trendy girls .Her friends involved as simple as her but her heart was always at sight of the fast girls who would look up to mark as per latest trend and enjoy bunking their practical classes and rarely they do their assignments and often preferred to give for job work.

The course which she had taken interested her more which involved lots of hard work and money .She put her whole heart into it and often sit late at night to complete her project works .At the time of submission ,teacher would praise her unique concept and presentation which makes everyone from her class to see her with big surprise as they have always known her to be the reserved type and a silent fellow.

A word of praise is a biggest reward for her and would further work hard to excel .Even i too like the same as it acts like the booster and makes me to perform excellent and it has happened also. Do we really praise our subordinates when they are really prize worthy ??

The Real Story

The girl of worry and hope now grown as a big girl with lots of planning as to what to do next after school .She asked her brother for the same but she he refused to make her study instead asked her to ask uncle to finance her further studies .Fortunately her uncle was gods gift in disguise to help her make life .

She applied in many universities and got admitted in one of the college which was close to her home.She thought her education is the only sword to fight her problems and with that she can lead a better life and most important want to prove others her real worth.She put her all efforts to excel and which she finally did after lots of hardships .Her plus point was she was confident and had faith on her that she will make it one day and show the world what she is .

I feel that if one understands their real worth and fight with life to prove it ,they are the real achievers and we should never forget that - God helps those who help themselves.But there are people who doesn't want to give a try lest would expect someone to help and surly they will make their life hell .I wish god help us in choosing a right path to lead a life as he is the one who brought us here and he is the one to whom will go after death ..Please direct us to right direction!with right thinking!right decision which will make a world of difference.

The Real Story

One day she was about to leave for school and stopped for a while as a reminder to pay the school fees came to her mind and backed her steps to her brothers room .Hesitantly she told that today is the last day to pay the fees but he started screaming at her saying he needs to be informed 4-5 days in advance and he cant pay now.Listening this she had changed clothes & left to sit at home as she cant face the class teacher .In school ,her class mate was worried missing her friend and realised her problem and payed from her pocket and this is somehow been put into the knowledge of her brother by someone from neighbour .He made her life a hell after that and starting beating her without listening to her PLEAS.... .

That time she was as helpless as an street dog with no one to help .Her misery's and repeated crying overnight made her sick of leading this life and wanted to end her life for ever with out thinking she is going to commit the same mistake as her mother did .Though she tryed for the same but fortunately rescued by her younger sister .

This whole episode made a strong impact on her life and realised the importance of blood relation, a selfish attitude of her real brother and money -which can do wonders as if one has it he flies high while the one if does not have the same is drowned in misery's and problems for life time.why? the world is so artificial and everyone sings the song of money and only money ??Can money bring back all her lost happiness ??

The Real Story

In her school days ,she had become the more reserved type and found difficulty in mixing with people .She dared to speak to her teachers as well but somehow it did not affected her studies .By the time she completed her school studies,her eldest sister got married to one of her distant relation and went to the other state .Her sister was a big moral support to herself and her younger brother /sister which now they don't have and miss her more than her parents.

Now all of these three were into their teenage when specially the girls want to share more with their mother and they lacked .To his brother it seemed more into personal enjoyment rather thinking or doing whats good to make his life as he has not yet completed his school studies .He dared to listen to her advise and often end up with small daily quarrels .Her younger sister too didn't realise the importance of education and left to household chores and preferred to be a homely girl and learned to stitch garments .

She was the only one to get into the studies seriously but not prepared what to do the next but kept thinking for many reasons which disturbed her .She had to lost in her thoughts to make a final decision which she was not able to do at this moment .May be she needed someone to guide the right path...