An Ideal Mate

At the time when we think its time to get married ,we come across lots of things running in our mind with ref to our would be .We start looking , comparing and mix n matching our would be as our next image of our own self. All that we wish to be the best and best partner for life .

what we normally desire is not we get usually but whoever is your blessed partner should be considered a perfect match as marriages are made in heaven, a true saying which happens. Though may be at the start of a married life we don't realise but at the latter part of the life -

we definitely realise the real fact of marriages . A best relation which has been made in this earth and if we handle it properly we are above the world and viceversa .A proper understanding and perfect balancing or acceptance on each views and taking care as if a single soul with two bodies . Though its not possible but it is , it happens and we have to believe it .

If we don't match our views or not in position to adjust or accept him/or may for some personal reason then there is no hope for that relation to exist any further .A relation which can be made easily but very difficult to keep it going smoothly as its not for a time being but for your whole life . I feel we undergo lots of pain in understanding and building this relation strong and during this we may have to sacrifice our own ideals and have to get adjusted or adapted to new ideals and thoughts just for the sake of that life partner..