With ref to life

I feel life doesnt gives what we desire for , rather it gifts us the surprises which we have ever dreamed. I wished a life were i 'm the only princess , enjoying my own way with my beliefs and with the people who are a part of my life and my real self.  But it has not happened , i'm here to adjust with the circumstances and with the people related to me nomatter i'm unhappy inside . Its the reality and happens with almost all the people.

If God bless each of us ,with  the life we deam then everything wouldnt have to be same, may be we will not happy then and thus , we all take its as it comes to be the Gods gift decided for each one of us with respect to life.
A life - doesnt means existance only as its an experience which each of us go through from birth to death..
For me at the age of 30+ , i feel i have had enough and want to have my dream life to come true which has deprieved me of my real happiness. Tired of my hectic life but surprised of  my energy which God has gifted me and i'm on with my spirit to accept the life challenges and surprises . Is'nt it great to get on and on ... but not getting my enough time to devote to my passion of writting blogs.. Hope i shall continue the real story next edition shortly.thnks.

The short story -Indibloggers

Once upon a time their in the jungle , there was two birds who were enemys - a white pigeon & a black crow and always jealosy of each other .Their normal tit shats are common between other birds in the same jungle . One day , they had an argument on their beauty and the comments for each other had infact attracted other birds and they themselves formed two partys - one as white and the other black .
Now , whose their to finalise who's the best ? was heading everbodys mind and they went to jungle king the lion with their appeal.

Lion was very good at heart and wanted that both crow and pigeon should appreciate each others beauty and become friends , but how ??
Lion said that the decision only be made when two of them agree to his condition which was to live toghther for three long days and night .
Both the birds agreed and lived under one shelter on a mango tree .
Two days and night passed without speaking with each other but the third day had something . Because on that day crow fell ill and couldnot go out for collecting food , simply lyed on his cot and though pigean was aware but didnt turn up to crows help. pigeon slept happily while crow was crying with pity and that time a hunter came in and made an angel to pass the arrow for pigeon to have it for his night meal .Crow saw that and started awaking the pigeon & this somehow imbalanced the hunter and missed the goal.
Now , aware of the situation that went in , pigeon felt very sorry for his behaviour and promised to be crows best friend no matter he is not good looking .This vanished their beuty ego altogether from their mind and soul .Now they are flying high with new hope and spirit.

The Real Story

One day Damayanti was at her houshold chores that she heared the doorbell and Krishna came inn. After a small talk on their well being , they cherished the childhood games and their friendship and had a good laugh over it .. But somehow they understood that they still like each other but cant convey due to their nature which was shielded by their rigid family rules and regulations. Krishna bid a bye hoping to meet her next time with banquet of love and flowers only for her as he has to catch the evening train.

Life gifts us with lots of surprises and happenings which takes us with its flow with time and we humans are so used to it and adapt ourselves with changes.

Damayanti was as usuall got busy with her life and college as being a final year of graduation and had to prepare hard for the coming exams and the project submissions. Due to some problems in the family and elder brother , she, her sister and younger brother shifted to their uncles place . This change was infact a first step to ruin her life further which she didnt knew but somehow had to adjust with other persons in the new place to manage her studies. Being emotional and soft , it was a difficult journey but had to travel to reach her goal .. ..May god bless her !!

The Real Life Story

One day Damayanti was on her way to college that she saw her childhood friend Krishna but was feeling shy to to talk to him thus left without speaking with him . Krishna was her best friend in her childhood times but lost touch with her after his parents got shifted to distant place but he still remembered her and just a coincidence that he was back here to visit one of their relative.

Damayanti cherished all her childhood happenings on her way to college and found krishna as a grown up teenager with most appealing looks , good personality and found herself equally opposite to him .She then thought to see him in the evening . Krishna is a all together a different guy with wonderful personality and excelled in academics and now planning to move to Bombay for some job interview . He met all his childhood Friends there and enquired about Damayanti and got to know rest of her family details and felt very sorry about her and desperately wanted to meet her . In the evening after coming from college she went to Krishna's place to see him but he had gone out thus she left passing the message to his relative and went back to home with some thoughts related to him running in mind . Disturbed and an curiosity to discover about the other person who once was her Friend .She doesn't know how long will this take to know about him but wanted this to happen at the earliest ..a wish which should be fulfilled .....

The Real Life Story

After a long time I'm continuing this story and from now on would like to address my central character girl as "Damayanti ".

Damayanti as you are familiar with her as being very simple and emotional girl has another face which is exactly her opposite as being smart ,very social ,down to earth etc. She has basket full of dreams of her own like she want to make it big in career and in life ,wish to visit all over the world as being a nature lover, loves the rain and the breeze it brings inn, loves to stare the sky and able to frame real life images on them,loves the river and afraid of sea waves etc and still more.

Had she is been blessed a wonderful life with nice parents and a good fortune , she would have been definitely a media personality . She is full of desires to explore the new world experiencing each and everything her heart relates with love ,nature,water ,sky and what else life.

She is very poetic and romantic at heart but her real life has ruined her and deprived of everything she aspired .Totally imbalanced life no one knows what will happen next but still going through the ups and downs with the hope to have the better life one day ...which seems impossible !

A Special Freind !

Sorry for blogging too late as i wasn't well and now I'm back into my spirits .Here it is......

Its about the person who has shown me the way to blogging and he himself is a good blogger on radioactivity.He is also a Leo but a unique personality of our office and a computer Savoy who spends most of his time with computer and net surfing .Earlier i was so much occupied with my office work that rarely get time to browsing the net and now past two months work pressure has been reduced , I'm relaxed and can manage blogs along with my office work .

During my school days itself , i used to write notes on myself and life and this special friend has motivated me to start doing the same in form of blogging through net .

Its really a good platform , I feel good to share my blogs with others and this friend had done a good job for me .Lots of thanks to him ....

An Ideal Mate

At the time when we think its time to get married ,we come across lots of things running in our mind with ref to our would be .We start looking , comparing and mix n matching our would be as our next image of our own self. All that we wish to be the best and best partner for life .

what we normally desire is not we get usually but whoever is your blessed partner should be considered a perfect match as marriages are made in heaven, a true saying which happens. Though may be at the start of a married life we don't realise but at the latter part of the life -

we definitely realise the real fact of marriages . A best relation which has been made in this earth and if we handle it properly we are above the world and viceversa .A proper understanding and perfect balancing or acceptance on each views and taking care as if a single soul with two bodies . Though its not possible but it is , it happens and we have to believe it .

If we don't match our views or not in position to adjust or accept him/or may for some personal reason then there is no hope for that relation to exist any further .A relation which can be made easily but very difficult to keep it going smoothly as its not for a time being but for your whole life . I feel we undergo lots of pain in understanding and building this relation strong and during this we may have to sacrifice our own ideals and have to get adjusted or adapted to new ideals and thoughts just for the sake of that life partner..

Different people different persona!!

In our life we meet lot of people either from our personal relations or through work culture and others as the case may be.People behave differently with respect to their personal emotions at that time.Their real character which one keeps in mind of that person changes completely and lost forever as unable to understand the reason of the human behaviour with respect to time and circumstances.

Its one of the old incident of school friend who once was my very best friend till standard eighth .The time when i newly joined college of fashion designing and in the very morning at 8am i was standing in the bust stop waiting for my bus and i saw her coming towards me but simply ignoring me as if she has never known me for ages .This made me realise the false relations which i had made all these years unknowingly believing all to be the best which i was mistaken and made me understood the real meaning of friendship which was next impt. relation of my life.

Her behaviour at that time is till date a big question mark?How she can behave like this as once we used to share the same bench in the class and enjoyed our friendship but after 10Th our friendly relations took a new shape with new batch of class mates and new friends.I believe its natural that its easy to forget the past and live to the present and old relations rarely hold any importance in ones life ,they move ahead with new phase of life with newer people they come across.We change as we learn to adapt ourselves to the circumstances & we are forced in to live that way to the newer persona each time .Can we able to judge our own self as whats our real character or nature is ?Its very difficult though we are aware but is an impossible to answer or get an answer on the same.

The Real Story

One day she was all alone at home as every body has gone out to attend some function .Even her younger sister too went out and she was left to household chores but the moment she was free and set her herself relax in front of television ,nothing interested her .She went straight to her room and opened old albums where she could see her mother looking like an angel from paradise .Her mother a very beautiful lady with face as peaceful as goddess mother Mary ,she burst into tears seeing her photo without reason as if filled with intense sorrow from inside .Lots of thoughts came into her mind reminding her loss and expectation to again experience the same warmth of mothers love which she used to get when her mother was alive.She felt that had she not lossed her mother she would still have the better life and all these current problems could not have uprooted .She knewed and heared from others saying that her mother had a lovable gesture thus the reason to be every ones favourite and being well educated she could withstand any problem and can find solution.

But gods decision which he makes for every ones fate can not be changed or desired .It has to happen as per his will and we have to undergo that .Mothers relation is something above the world and the person who have lost it can better understand what it means to him/her.I pity those newly born babies whose mother dies after their birth and they are taken care by some nurse or their near and dears .But whatever they do their best to care for that child,they cant fill the space of the real mother ...I really pray God to please don't let any child to experience this loss ..please !!

The Real Story

When she was in college doing some diploma in textiles ,she was an very simple girl with no flight of any charms as college girls used to have at her age. She would dress up simple and simply to her personality of her own and rarely mingled with trendy girls .Her friends involved as simple as her but her heart was always at sight of the fast girls who would look up to mark as per latest trend and enjoy bunking their practical classes and rarely they do their assignments and often preferred to give for job work.

The course which she had taken interested her more which involved lots of hard work and money .She put her whole heart into it and often sit late at night to complete her project works .At the time of submission ,teacher would praise her unique concept and presentation which makes everyone from her class to see her with big surprise as they have always known her to be the reserved type and a silent fellow.

A word of praise is a biggest reward for her and would further work hard to excel .Even i too like the same as it acts like the booster and makes me to perform excellent and it has happened also. Do we really praise our subordinates when they are really prize worthy ??

The Real Story

The girl of worry and hope now grown as a big girl with lots of planning as to what to do next after school .She asked her brother for the same but she he refused to make her study instead asked her to ask uncle to finance her further studies .Fortunately her uncle was gods gift in disguise to help her make life .

She applied in many universities and got admitted in one of the college which was close to her home.She thought her education is the only sword to fight her problems and with that she can lead a better life and most important want to prove others her real worth.She put her all efforts to excel and which she finally did after lots of hardships .Her plus point was she was confident and had faith on her that she will make it one day and show the world what she is .

I feel that if one understands their real worth and fight with life to prove it ,they are the real achievers and we should never forget that - God helps those who help themselves.But there are people who doesn't want to give a try lest would expect someone to help and surly they will make their life hell .I wish god help us in choosing a right path to lead a life as he is the one who brought us here and he is the one to whom will go after death ..Please direct us to right direction!with right thinking!right decision which will make a world of difference.

The Real Story

One day she was about to leave for school and stopped for a while as a reminder to pay the school fees came to her mind and backed her steps to her brothers room .Hesitantly she told that today is the last day to pay the fees but he started screaming at her saying he needs to be informed 4-5 days in advance and he cant pay now.Listening this she had changed clothes & left to sit at home as she cant face the class teacher .In school ,her class mate was worried missing her friend and realised her problem and payed from her pocket and this is somehow been put into the knowledge of her brother by someone from neighbour .He made her life a hell after that and starting beating her without listening to her PLEAS.... .

That time she was as helpless as an street dog with no one to help .Her misery's and repeated crying overnight made her sick of leading this life and wanted to end her life for ever with out thinking she is going to commit the same mistake as her mother did .Though she tryed for the same but fortunately rescued by her younger sister .

This whole episode made a strong impact on her life and realised the importance of blood relation, a selfish attitude of her real brother and money -which can do wonders as if one has it he flies high while the one if does not have the same is drowned in misery's and problems for life time.why? the world is so artificial and everyone sings the song of money and only money ??Can money bring back all her lost happiness ??

The Real Story

In her school days ,she had become the more reserved type and found difficulty in mixing with people .She dared to speak to her teachers as well but somehow it did not affected her studies .By the time she completed her school studies,her eldest sister got married to one of her distant relation and went to the other state .Her sister was a big moral support to herself and her younger brother /sister which now they don't have and miss her more than her parents.

Now all of these three were into their teenage when specially the girls want to share more with their mother and they lacked .To his brother it seemed more into personal enjoyment rather thinking or doing whats good to make his life as he has not yet completed his school studies .He dared to listen to her advise and often end up with small daily quarrels .Her younger sister too didn't realise the importance of education and left to household chores and preferred to be a homely girl and learned to stitch garments .

She was the only one to get into the studies seriously but not prepared what to do the next but kept thinking for many reasons which disturbed her .She had to lost in her thoughts to make a final decision which she was not able to do at this moment .May be she needed someone to guide the right path...

My all time Favourite Rhyme

Chubby cheeks ,Dimple chin

Rosy lips ,Teeth within

Curly hair ,very Fair

Eyes are blue ,Lovely too

Mama's Pet ,IS THAT YOU!!!

YES!YES!YES!

Is'nt that a lovely rhyme to share a little jingle- mingle -laughtor....

The Real Story

The girl who is my central character had to go with lot of experiences in her personnel life which normally people get to experience in their latter part of life .Each and every test of life had further made her strong but the same time very sensitive and take to heart easily which always shattered her peace of mind .Whenever she is lost in thoughts and disturbed by the family matters ,she would desperately wish that her parents could come alive and make her life a little easier.

Often she had a dream of her father coming alive and making her realise its true and tell all yr friends and people around that I'm back and you are not an orphan anymore.And the moment she wakes up and open her eyes their is no one and all that she felt was in a dream and just a dream which has no meaning and just to cheer up and get started to face this reality and prove everybody that without parents you can manage life and can be an good example of life..

Simplicity The Trend setter

Very happy to start my own web page in the form of blogs on fashion field and i'm doing my best to post whatever i can related to this field .Much excited to add my sketches too , an all time passion which i had lost touch due to being busy with my official life .But now everthything is on smooth going thus able to work more on my blogs and my major achievment will be when views will be shared by people all over .I pray god that my dream comes true .........

The Real Story

After both her parents death she left alone with her maternal brothers and sisters who were with a age difference of two years and looked after by one of the close relation to father .She felt the real loss of her father when she has to depend on others for matters related to money i.e school fees ,books and other expenses .Her eldest sister played the role of her mother but cant help much as she herself spoiled her life after stopping her further studies after 10Th and taking home tuition's for primary classes and managing household chores .

Big brother of all looked after the family business but denied to take responsibility of her brothers and sisters .Second eldest brother too ,got separated from them just to stay aloof and enjoy leading a bachelor life .Now the left over were total of 4 i.e one eldest sister ,one younger brother ,one younger sister and she herself.She concentrated more on studies and excelled in that field which her rest of the brother/sister lacked .younger brother too stopped his studies after 6Th and went to work with big brother looking after family business .

At this stage ,i realised after parents loss only affecting factor is their children and who ultimately spoil their own life without any reason.Nobody cares for their future and do what their heart says and can never manage to handle the other peoples advise no matter its for their better only.Even the circumstances also prove favourable to them and their thinking and their stride towards future all seems to go in a wrong direction .Even the God has closed his eyes to let them do whatever they can to ruin life,why ? that all related to them are also gone blind ?If somebody who can help is God who is also gone lost with the wind which has just broken inn to change their fate altogether in a first shot ..........

My marrige

I got married when i was 23yrs old and no knowledge on the real meaning of marriage .I tied a knot with my husband who was from my near relation and a familiar face which i have been watching since i was 10yrs old .My marriage was like a miracle to me because i personally rejected his offer for marriage and which later i had accepted just for my grandma & family obligations.Till the time of marriage and even when the ritual functions were going on i was very much sure that some how this marriage will be stopped but it didn't ..

I had to accept him though my heart does not ,initial years of my marriage was a disaster and i had made my life a hell .Stopped talking to every body at home and preferred to be alone in my own world.After two years of my marriage my brother in law was the only person who had changed my thinking and made myself adjust to my married life .From then to till date i feel god has given me wonderful gift and a companion who is always stood before me at times of difficulty and when i had to look after my real elder brother ,who is no more ..

My inner self

I feel myself to be very different frm others and want to know why i cant be one among them .
I think my life has become very challenging and no space for any my personel enjoyment I find people who has time for thier own self and enjoy the life while I hv lots of responsiblitys and running like a machine as if wl stop only when my life ends.I keep asking god this is not fair to me ,i do want to hv the chance to spread my wings to the world of fun and happiness .
But still want to fight with my luck and fate till i rcv the ultimate satisfaction both personally and professionally .
God has blessed me with wonderful son kailash after 5 yrs of my marrige ,who is everything to me but cant spend much time with him .He is very naughty and talks more like me .His facial features are very much close to me and loves to hear and make nice storys as i do.

A lovely child very sharp and steals every bodys heart .He is studying in prenursery and abt 3 yrs old but still behaves like big child with his talks and comments ,actions ..........

The Real story

After mothers death that girl and her brothers and sisters were looked after by grandma and aunt from the fathers side .She missed her mother and almost forgotten when she grew up and her father had become a lovely father too but still her mothers loss was a loss forever .After mothers death ,her father rouined his life completly by drinking and wasting his monitory sources for nothing and died before finishing his responsibilty of a father .Now after fathers desmise her life changed alltogether .

The Real Story

Want to share a real life story of a girl whos born and brought up with troubles and only problems where happiness exists only for a time period like a spring season which comes and goes .She was a born at the time when her father met with the road accident and apparently got fracture on his left leg ,it was a severe accident and the time when she entered this earth clouds were rouring and showering droplets to cool the earth .Being a girl ,she was often disliked by family members as she was the fourth girl born to her parents and that was not a good omen.
Her mother was a beautiful and intelligent lady as compared to her father who was less educated but smart and very social ,loves to enjoy with friends by drinking and smoking and less responsible in terms to handle a family .Their parents lived together for 5-6 years after her birth & her mother committted a suicide just because of her father ,failiure to withstand this realtionship any more ,she had eated poison to end her life without thinking that she is leaving her 6 childrens behind in the hold of her father who himself needs somebody to support.Now the fate of her children is a big question mark? Wl share more........

BEST FRIEND

My schoolmate seema is my bestfriend , we share same bench/desk and we hv been in touch for more than 20yrs frm now. A friendship of hers is above all of all relations i have on this earth and she is with me whenever i needed her the most .Though both of us are married and settled in life and have lots of new relations added to our lives but still our frienship is getting stronger day by day.We share our views and do discuss to solve our personel and official problms and find that most difficult task on the earth is to lead a good life .

She herself is a legal adviser in a idea cellular and i'm working in a garment buying agency as buying merchant and feel that though our professional lifes are different but our personel life is altogother the same .Each of us are blessed with a son and a wonderful life partner and very challanging life both professionally and personally.

Both of us have many things similar and we hv lots energy and stamina to withstand lifes hardships and very moody when we hv to celebrate our success.We always wish that god bless us with this true friendship forever and ever............

Journey of life

When a child comes to this world he or she crys and same when they leave this earth rest of the poeple related to them cry to loose them.Life a chain frm birth to death all with different phases of life like we feel happy when things around or create an environment of happiness ,we feel sad and worried when things around and people related to us make us feel sad with their sorrow ,we adjust with the circumstances when they demand and finally realise how difficult to live where all phases of life relates with others and not with oneself and mostly adjusting to live for others .
Sometimes surprised as life goes like a ruderless boat all by itself ,moving with wind and waves as they move of their own .We experience all the feelings first the love which our mother showers on us ,second the scold which we get frm our parents for disobeying them .next the fear of going out to school,nxt long time awaited dream of jolly to join the college .next to feel the love of the girfriend or boyfriend and then ultimate relation when we tie a knot with out life partner.

The real truth of life is our next life starts frm the marrige and thats the world which is created by the bond of two people and how they make up to settle to lead a life of thier own with all ups and down which normally everbody of us face .Its a realtion which lives with us till our last breath and rest of the relations lost their importance .But its also true that marriges are made in heaven and if one is blessed with good wife or husband rest of the life could be lead happily and its out fate and luck which decides above all gods blessing.

I feel besides gods blessing ,its in our hands how we mould our life and live and let others around us to lead a wonderful life .A positive attitude to everthing wl always assures you of bright future and well living too.The next most important thing is the faith and belief on the realtions you made and dont worry about the world on what they comment and say ,because its yr life and you are the boss and so must enjoy the life with full spirits.

Happiness

Happiness exists in ones innerself and it with us that how we discover and spread happiness al around and experience the feeling.Life on earth is very challanging but its in our hands how we go about in the path of life ups and down .We can be happy only when we let go our past and live to the present as live life to the king size .Though its difficult but we hv to be strong enough to withstand the lifes hardship and excel in everything you relate to .Its yr success which gvs yr ultimate happiness and satisfaction.Good luck for the present and the future .